Rochester Portrait Photographer
So. I say this every year.
Are you doing family pictures?
Yes?
Okay.
Here’s my advice — whoever you choose for your photographer — BOOK the SESSION NOW. Seriously. If you have ideas of fall photos, holiday cards, your family with great colors outside — yeah. You know what i’m going to say, right?
Limited. Openings.
So…that being said — this family booked and we had a huge amount of fun running all over their house and yard and just PLAYING (cuz I LOVE to play!) and George (I maintain that “GEORGE” is the best boy’s name ever — just say it to yourself. Right? If I had thought of it then — my son TOTALLY would have been a GEORGE) kept me on my toes running ALL OVER. OMG! ::laughing::
And one small observation — if you made it down to the bottom of this post and didn’t get caught up in — HOW CUTE THESE CHILDREN ARE ::grin:: — I want you to see that you don’t always have to go to crazy locations for photographs – sometimes just playing in the yard makes the best place. Right?
I feel it’s COMPLETELY UNFAIR that Suzanne looks so amazing pregnant. I mean…when I had my son…let’s just say certain parts of my body reached epic proportions. ::laughing:: When Suzanne walked into my studio, I swear, she brought the sunlight with her. And, at 8 months pregnant…I repeat, it’s just not FAIR! ::laughing::
Suzanne — you are AMAZING and I had so much fun yesterday! xo T
So. Perhaps you’ve noticed that sometimes I like to try new things. No?! Well…I can assure you…it’s true. Take this presentation of Megan’s senior photo shoot sneak peek. It’s HOT, right? Yeah. I thought so too. First of all Megan, amazing member of the class of 2012, came to me for her senior photographs. She brought her best friend and her mom — and we had an AMAZING session. It’s important, those of you considering having your photographs taken, to be THOUGHTFUL about what clothes you should wear — my usual discussion with my clients runs something like this: bring a suitcase. ::grin:: It’s better to bring too much than not enough. Maybe we’ll change our minds or something won’t work the way we thought it would…then you have options.
Megan is allll about options. She brought a terrific array of choices and we ROCKED it out!
Thanks Megan!
First. An overview.
Jason and Stephen are my friends. You may have seen them in photographs I’ve done before for the Rock Paper Scissors website…you may know and love them yourself…or you may be here completely for the first time and stumbling onto this post — but I promise that watching it will bring you into the moment…into the beauty of the relationship that they share…and give you a peek into what LOVE looks like. LOOKS like. I know we all have seen many many images where the couple is in love, they get married, they are happy — right? (And don’t you love them? They fire me up!). But Jason and Stephen are in a moment we rarely get to glimpse…pure reaction and spontaneous feeling..and love.
Second: Behind the Scenes.
Stephen texted me and said…do you think you could photograph the proposal…without being seen? (paraphrasing here for the sake of brevity. Really, what is below is where you want to be) So we brainstormed and ultimately decided that at home…outside on the porch (their favorite spot) with Jason’s beloved sister and brother in law there was the right fit. I coached Stephen on where Jason should sit…what light had to be on (and it was still really dark — hence the darkness in the images — it wasn’t like I could use any flash!) and how I would let him know once I was in position…
Third: The Challenge.
All the lights were supposed to be off so I could sneak in the house through the back door (yes, I dressed in black and snuck through neighbors yards. Whatever it takes, right? ::grin::), but when Stephen texted me he was ready…I discovered that the KITCHEN LIGHT WAS STILL ON. There was no way I could walk in without being seen!! What to do? What to do? I did what any panicking must get the shot photographer would do…I took off my shoes, laid my camera in front of me on the floor and crawled in on my belly…like a snake. I was SO SCARED I would be discovered!! ::laughing:: When I got to the couch Stephen came in and turned off the light and I was in pitch darkness. The only light was coming from the porch.
Fourth: This is What Happened Next. (watch all the way to the end)
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Jason and Stephen…I love you both so much. I was so honored to be part of your moment (vicariously!) and I cried all the way through taking these photographs! Congratulations!!
Leave them some comment love, people!
xo Tam
So…if you read my blog at all you must know that I love being happy. I’m perpetually optimistic (to a fault) and I LOVE the people in my life. No matter what. I like talking about my clients and sharing details from the things that we do here at the studio…but rarely do I share all the boring stuff or the hard stuff.
Today it’s the hard stuff. I debated whether or not to even write this entry — I mean…how can I even come CLOSE to sharing something so personal and so hard with all of you…but I came to the conclusion that if your even here reading this — then you either…like me…know me…or want to know more about me. And Lulu is a very very big part of my life. For eleven years.
I lost my best friend yesterday. It was quick and unexpected — even though I could see age taking it’s toll — I still clung to the belief that she would be part of my life forever. Those of you who have pets or anyone or anything super important in your world know exactly what I am saying. You know it’s coming — but you’ll willingly cling to the last scrap of time together no matter how hard or how much effort it takes.
I used to be (haha. that’s a joke. I still am.) afraid of relationships. Of commitment. Of making a CHOICE and having to stick to it forever. I didn’t want to be tied down with a pet…I felt like it was not the greatest decision I made…
But then I met Lulu.
Those of you who met her will know that Lulu has (forgive. I still cannot speak in past tense. not yet) the most amazing personality. She was happy to see me no matter how long I was gone…5 minutes or 5 days. She missed me. And I missed her.
Losing her is so terribly painful.
But I also want to tell you that the pain I am feeling is small compared to the amount of joy that dog has given me over the years. She’s listened to me. She’s snuggled me when I was upset and growled at me when I wanted to play. She made me laugh every.single.damn.day. And I am going to miss her so much.
So…here are just a few of the amazing things that I love about my dog.
1. Her aversion to peanut butter. She never could understand: was it a liquid? was it a solid? She made the funniest “peanut butter face”. OMG.
2. Floppy Tongue. Floppy tongue came out when she was happiest. When the people who loved her were around her and paying attention to how fabulous she was and rubbed her belly. This is a RARE photograph my son snapped of my puppy and me and floppy tongue.
3. Swimming Dog. She’s a lab right? She loves loves water. And swimming. And shaking it all off on whomever is closest.
4. Her smile. Lulu always smiled. Unless I was going somewhere and not taking her. Her smile sometimes got me through the day.
5. She loved me no matter what. If I was grumpy, unshowered, weird, tired, sad, happy. Her devotion never waivered. Nor did mine.
I know she’s not in pain anymore. I know she loves me. And I know that in knowing her — I am a completely better, calmer and happier person than I would have been. And…it really really hit home to me how incredibly important photographs are today. These photographs…some of them are OLD. All of them are PRECIOUS. Because I can’t get her back again. But I can carry her in my heart and remember.
So … I don’t want you to be sad for me. I’m soooo lucky to have had such an amazing dog in my life. I just wanted you to know I’m sad. And I miss my puppy.
Love you Luleelu. You’re SUCH a good girl.
xo Tam
My team has learned, much like Pavlov’s dogs, to cringe when they see me come in like a whirlwind, all wound up, and say: “Okay. So I had this idea in the middle of the night…” Typically that means: A. A lot of work. B. Switching directions from what they are doing to focus on something new C. Tammy is obsessed with thinking about this idea. D. Taking a lot of time E. A lot of work. ::laughing::
A lot of times those ideas kind of fade away because they are impractical for whatever reason, or I notice that someone else has done something kind of along the same lines, or…I get bored with it…or it’s too hard to REALLY do. Since I generate a LOT of ideas all the time (who knew this was unusual?) this happens quite often.
Once in a while though, I have a “BIG” one. And this time, not only was it big — but it turned out to exceed my wildest imagination and expectations — and I could NOT have achieved it without the diligent work and dedication of my team, my friends, my clients and my colleagues.
It started with Vanity Fair.
You know how they have that issue with the actors on it? I remember thinking…I’d love to do something like that. How can I do something like that?
And then…in the middle of the night…I woke up with this idea perfectly formed in my head: my clients.
I wonder if my clients would do something like that? And so…an idea was born. The most humbling thing for me, by FAR, is that every single one of my clients we talked to said yes. No hesitation…no maybe’s — just…yep. Tam. That sounds sooo fun! Let’s do it! Tell me when and we’ll be there!
I think I might have cried I was so overwhelmed by that.
As an afterthought i said — hey. let’s videotape it and see if we can’t put a little behind the scenes thingy (yes, I said thingy, it’s the technical term! ::grin::) together. Which turned into: let’s interview each person and ASK (innovative concept, right? ASK our clients to tell us about their experience) — and we maybe might have forgot to mention this to our clients — so when they came in to be photographed, they were surprised and a little nervous to sit in front of a camera. I’m telling you this so you can see what follows was completely unscripted — even when I talk (and it’s SO HARD to hear yourself…ugh. do I REALLY sound like that? OMG) I had things I wanted to say, but I just talked unscripted. I sounded a little strange and disconnected and sometimes I’d have to say it a couple of times — but I wanted it to be more gritty and real — then a perfect beautiful video. Because we want to have fun and play and take photographs — we don’t want to be perfect. It’s too much pressure, right?
Here’s the Vanity Fair cover that inspired me:
Cool ,right? So…what I love about what our final image is that it’s a TOTAL Swales interpretation. I wanted several things — I wanted to show how DIVERSE my clientele is…I wanted to show how COOL they are…and I wanted to be PLAYFUL.
Here’s mine (and clicking it will take you to an online version — that if you click it will make it REALLY BIG. Try it — it’s totally cool!)
Can you BELIEVE this?! I LOVE it sooo much!!!
Finally — we worked on the COOL VIDEO.
I don’t know what to say about it other than it’s the coolest thing I think we’ve done up until this point. I love everything and everyone in it. Thank you Thank you Thank you to everyone involved — my amazing clients, Rock Paper Scissors Salon who styled, Bruce Hahn for advising me on lighting, My amazing team, and my family for supporting me through all the madness. I love you all.
So…watch it will ya? And tell me if you like it. really. Cuz it was a LOT of work. And I really wanted you to know how important it is to me that my clients take center stage…because, ultimately, that’s WHY I do what I do. For you. xoxo
sending big virtual hugs!
8.18.2011
Amazing and beautiful all the way around! Congrats to Jason and Stephen! ~Kerry~
8.19.2011
This was beautiful. You two really deserve it, way to make it magical Tammy
8.19.2011
PS i <3 you all
8.19.2011
Absolutley amazing..Leaves me speechless. Congratulations Jason and Stephen! xoxo
8.19.2011
Beautiful! I love you guys!