Rochester Portrait Photographer
And I mean this as a serious question. Do you think they are important?
I can tell you what I think — and my opinion is based not on the fact that taking these photographs are part of what I do for a living — but more of a life-long observation about how our society functions.
(yeah. I’m about to go serious. brace yourselves! ::grin::)
So. Many of us have had the experience of being thin and beautiful and then maybe not so much. Have you noticed how differently you are treated simply based on appearances? Or…what if you leave the house looking ratty vs. all amazing and cute. Difference?
And yeah. I can also see that looking good impacts your attitude and the way you carry yourself and all that inner beauty stuff. But I am simply observing that appearances have impact. On everyone.
So do I think headshots are important? Yup. With the economy being what it is, with people competing for jobs in ever greater numbers…with judgment about your business being made in an instant on the internet…have you looked at your bounce rate lately? That tells you something. Important.
Images are CRITICAL. CRITICAL.
They tell someone a lot about you in a glance…things like…do you look approachable? likeable? happy? intelligent?
Are the images professional (nods to self ::grin::)? And within that word professional there are many many different levels. If you are presenting yourself to the world…why in heaven’s name would you put up blah images? What does that say to others about how you view yourself?
And I am not by any stretch giving you a Tammy Swales “hire me” plug. All I’m doing is expressing what I think about the importance of images. We are a visual society. We’re impatient. We don’t wait or ponder or get wishy washy much anymore. We’re decisive and make snap decisions.
Trust me. If an interviewer or recruiter or Broadway show director is faced with a pile of 500 resumes with images attached…do you think they’re going to read every single one? Nope. Betcha that they flip through the images first. Is it right? Nope. Is it real? Yup.
A good photographer, an experienced photographer both understands this dynamic — but works with the client to make sure they are being presented in the best possible … um if you’ll pardon the pun… light. Your personality and self are what’s important. Getting that into a photograph is a major MAJOR skill. It’s not the camera people. Trust me.
So I ask you…how do you want the world to see yourself?!




The Tour de Fam | Rochester NY Family Photographer
August 13, 2010It all began with a photograph. Which is funny because normally sessions END in photographs…
But this one began with a photograph. Not my photograph, and not just any photograph…THIS photograph:

The Stolkas celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary this year. FIFTY YEARS!!! HOW COOL IS THAT!?!? And their daughter contacted us for some family portraits of them with her and her sister while everyone was in town for the anniversary. And she knew she wanted to bring this photograph which of them on their wedding day. And I loved this idea!
When I shoot families, I think it is really important to make the shoot more than just images of people in a place. Family is history, it is love, it is the nitty-gritty and the laughter of every day, and I think that every family should incorporate something that is all about THEM into their shoot to really capture WHO they are. So I loved the wedding photo plan. Then we got talking and Helena said that one thing that her parents love to do together is bike…so we brought that into the shoot…

It was incredible to see the closeness between the Stolkas and their daughters…and the laughter!!!! This was more than a celebration of FIFTY (did I mention 50?) years of marriage, it was a celebration of family, of love and of those moments together that we can often take for granted in our busy lives. And we laughed SO much!

Happy Anniversary Stolkas! Here’s to many more years of family and fun!!!








9.03.2010
hot damn those photos are stunning. and you make wonderful points. I’m linking to this!